4种回应孩子情绪的方式： 先回应感受，再回应事情
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">当孩子闹情绪时，当孩子受到挫折时，当孩子觉得没有爱被忽视的时候，家长们会不知所措，不知道怎样可以让孩子停止哭闹，冷静下来。<br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">最核心的操作要点是：先回应孩子的感受，再回应事情。</span></section><section label="Copyright25 playhudong All Rights Reserved." data-remoteid="c1586246711958" data-cacheurl="http://1251001145.cdn.myqcloud.com/1251001145/style/images/t-1.gif" style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(255, 76, 65);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);visibility: visible;"> 01 · 最好的反应，要针对事情暗示的联系</span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">当孩子说起或询问一件事情时，最好的反应通常是不要针对事件本身，而是要针对事情暗示的联系。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">六岁的弗洛拉抱怨说，最近她收到的礼物比哥哥的少，她的妈妈并没有否认她的抱怨，</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">也没有对弗洛拉解释说哥哥年长，应该收到更多的礼物，她也没有纠正这个错误。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">她知道，孩子真正关心的是他们和父母关系的深度，而不是礼物的大小和数量。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">所以妈妈问：“你担心我爱你是不是跟爱他那样多？”她没有再多说一句话，而是紧紧拥抱了弗洛拉，弗洛拉惊喜地笑了。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">这就是这段谈话的结束，而它原本可能会变成一段无休止的争论。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;visibility: visible;">许多孩子的问题的真正意图，是他们对放心的渴望。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">对于这样的问题，最好的回答就是向孩子保证我们对他们永久不变的爱。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(255, 76, 65);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">02 · 要就孩子对这件事的感受作出回应</span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当孩子讲起一件事时，不要就事情本身回应他，而是要就孩子对这件事的感受作出回应，这样通常比较有效。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当孩子回到家，不停抱怨朋友、老师，或者生活时，最好顺着孩子的语气回应，</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">而不要先试图查明事件的真相，更不要告诉他们睿智的解决方案。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">十岁的哈罗德回到家就开始发脾气、抱怨。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">哈罗德：多么痛苦的生活啊！老师说我是骗子，只是因为我告诉她我忘了家庭作业，她冲我嚷嚷，她确实在嚷！她说她要给你写条子。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="119" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 05);"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈：你今天很倒霉。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">哈罗德：确实是的。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈：在全班同学面前被叫做骗子一定让你尴尬极了。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">哈罗德：确实很尴尬。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈：我打赌你心里一定骂了她几句！</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">哈罗德：是的！你怎么知道？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈：当有人伤害了我们时，我们通常都会这么做。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">哈罗德：我感觉轻松多了。</span></section></section></section></blockquote><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当孩子发现他们的感受是正常人经历的一部分时，他们会感到深深的安慰。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">传达这种安慰的最好办法就是理解他们。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(255, 76, 65);">03 · 用具体细节来表达，超出孩子期望之外的理解</span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当孩子对自身做评价时，通常不要只是以赞同或不赞同来回答他，而要用具体的细节来表达超出孩子期望之外的理解。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一个孩子这样说：“我的算术不好。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果你告诉他：“是的，你对数字的反应很糟糕。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这样说是没多大帮助的，驳斥他的观点也没有用，或者给他一些肤浅的意见，</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如“如果你再用功一点，会好一些的”也没有用，这些轻率的好意只会伤害他的自尊，这种直接的教训只会降低他的自信。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">你可以用诚挚和理解来回答他说的“我的算术不好”，下面任何一句回答都行：</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="168" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“算术是一门很难的课程。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“有些题目很难解答。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“老师的批评不会让算术变得容易些。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“算术让人觉得自己很愚蠢。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“我敢断定你一定希望快点下课。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“下课时，你会感觉安心的。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“考试时一定特别难熬。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“你一定很担心不及格。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“你一定很担心我们会怎么想。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“你一定很担心我们会对你失望。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“我们知道有些科目是很难的。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“我们相信你会尽力的。”</span></section></section></section></blockquote><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(255, 76, 65);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"> 04 · 孩子对自己消极、否定时，理解他们是我们能给予的最大帮助</strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一个十二岁的女孩说，当她拿着不及格的成绩单回家，她父亲用如此理解的态度跟她说话时，她几乎要晕倒，</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">她在心里说，我一定要对得起父亲对我的信任。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当孩子表达了对自己消极、否定的看法时，我们的否定和反对对他没什么帮助，</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他们会更坚定地确信自己的看法，我们能给予的最大帮助是告诉他，我们不仅理解他的感受，还理解他的特别的暗示。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="93" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">例如：</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">伊凡：我很笨。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲(认真地)：你真的那么觉得么？你不觉得你很聪明？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">伊凡：不觉得。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲：那么你心里一定很难过？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">伊凡：嗯。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲：在学校里，你一定非常担心时间，担心不及格，担心分数低。 </span></section></section></section></blockquote><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当老师叫你回答问题时，你一定很慌乱，甚至即使知道答案，你也无法正确说出来，你怕你的话听起来很愚蠢……老师会批评你……同学会笑话你。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">所以，很多时候，你宁愿什么也不说。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;outline: 0px;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我想你大概记得你说了什么而大家笑话你的情景，这让你觉得自己很愚蠢，同时也觉得受到了伤害，很生气。(这时，孩子可能会告诉你一些他的经历。)</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲：看，儿子！在我眼里，你是优秀的，只是你自己有不同的看法。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这段对话可能并不会使孩子立刻改变对自己的看法，但是可能会在他心里埋下怀疑的种子，怀疑自己是不是真的那么无能。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他可能会在心里想：如果爸爸理解我，认为我是一个优秀的人，那么可能我并不是那么没用。<br style="outline: 0px;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这段谈话产生的亲密可能会让儿子要努力地无愧于父亲对他的信任，最终，他会逐渐发现自己身上的许多优点。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">为人父母，是门学问，谁不希望自己的孩子优秀、健康？科学育儿，才能帮孩子塑造健全人格。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; widows: 1; line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">- The End -</span></strong></span></section></section></section><p style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: 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