这部防性侵的动画片，爸妈一定要给孩子看！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="padding-left: 0.5em;padding-right: 0.5em;"><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">美国有一个统计数据显示：四分之一的女孩和六分之一的男孩曾遭受性侵，儿童平均遭遇性侵的年龄是9岁，93%的性侵者孩子认识，47%的性侵者是家人或熟人，危险如此之近，远超过我们的想象......</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">简单三步，教孩子对性侵害说“不”！</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">周末，跟闺蜜一家在北郊踏秋。看着她家女儿乖巧可爱，温暖贴心，再看看我家这个小调皮，我羡慕极了。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">可谁知她说：</span><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);">“哎，这有什么羡慕的，别羡慕了，你知道，我养女儿是有多担心吗？就怕她遇见什么坏人。”</span></strong></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她老公说：“我们现在最紧张这个。尤其是之前看了林奕含那个新闻后，我现在都不敢送女儿单独去上兴趣班了，就怕她安全出什么问题。”</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">是啊，看到林奕含的悲剧，哪个做父母的不心疼，不担心孩子的安全？别说是女孩了，男孩也担心啊~</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">有调查显示，在中国，<strong>有9.5%的女童和8%的男童都曾遭到过不同方式的性侵害，总数高达2500万人，而且多数都是熟人作案。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这些数字实在触目惊心，警醒我们对孩子的保护决不可又有丝毫的掉以轻心。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但退一步说，无论父母多么努力，也无法做到24小时、无缝隙贴身保护，孩子总有独处、落单的时候，所以，</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>教会孩子自我保护、远离性侵害更关键。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这两天，我无意间看到了美国How To Tell Your Child机构制作的儿童防性侵视频。看完感叹，有时候不得不服气老美在这方面的专业性，动画视频内容简单易懂，又实用有效。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>强烈推荐和孩子一起观看、讨论，让孩子赶快操练起来，用科学的方法辨别坏人、保护自己。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">下面就是由美国How To Tell Your Child机构制作的儿童防性侵视频，全长大概7分钟，建议给4岁以上的孩子观看。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">f0373b8oh7z</p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;background-color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·01· </span></strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">视频内容一点不复杂，三步就可以教会孩子“防性侵”的安全知识：</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>1.教孩子识别坏人</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在教孩子怎么保护自己之前，老师先问了一个问题：<strong>“怎么辨别坏人呢？”</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">对于坏人，每一个孩子都有自己的看法，不过他们的认知仅仅只是限定于“坏人有大大的牙齿、血红的眼睛，巨大的手和邪恶的笑容”。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">老师一个接一个“吹破”孩子们关于坏人的天真想法，并告诉他们<strong>坏人并不等于“长得坏”，有的人甚至长得很好看，看上去很和蔼，很炫酷，还有各种美味的糖果和礼物。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这下孩子就困惑了，既然坏人看上去很友善，那怎么才能分辨出来呢？</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>2.教孩子认识隐私部位，警惕5个警报</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">直接从外表分辨“披着羊皮的狼”确实挺难，老师转而教孩子如何识别坏人的<strong>“坏行为”</strong>。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在此之前，需要先教孩子认识身体，并知道自己的隐私部位。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">一般，在生活中，我们都习惯性地告诉孩子泳衣遮住的地方就是隐私部位。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这种方式虽然简单，但是通过这种描述孩子只能知道一个大概的范围，并不真的明白哪些部位是隐私部位。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">对于这个方面，其实大可不必讳莫如深。我们可以跟老师一样，非常坦然地告诉孩子：</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>男孩的生殖器官和屁股是隐私部位，女孩的乳房，生殖器官和屁股是隐私部位。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>这些部位是不可以给外人看或者触碰的。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果有人要看你的隐私部位，或者让你看TA的隐私部位，叫做<strong>“视觉警报”</strong>。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果有人谈论你的隐私部位，叫做<strong>“言语警报”</strong>。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果有人触碰你的隐私部位，或者叫你触碰他的隐私部位，叫做<strong>“触碰警报”</strong>。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">单独与陌生人在一起，叫做<strong>“独处警报”</strong>。</span><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);">特别要注意的是，父母不在身边，不要接受陌生人给的糖果。</span></strong></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果有人拥抱、背、亲吻你，叫做<strong>“拥抱警报”</strong>。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这五个警报都是危险信号，我们要孩子明白，当有人对他做出这5种行为任意之一时，他就可以判定“那个人”是个坏人，要勇敢地对他的行为说“No”！</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>3.与孩子共建“照顾者”名单和“爱心圈”</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">那有没有例外呢？当然有！这也是视频内容科学专业的地方。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>①爸爸妈妈可以！</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不过，只能在必须帮孩子洗澡，或者孩子隐私部位受伤的情况下才行。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这种方式超棒，可以帮孩子进一步明确身体的界限。明白，爸爸妈妈也只有在特殊的情况下才能触碰自己的隐私部位。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>②“照顾者”名单上的可以！</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">通常，爷爷奶奶、姥姥爷爷或者其他人也会帮忙照顾孩子，这时候，我们可以跟孩子一起列一张“照顾者”名单，列入名单的人在限定的条件下也是允许的。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不过需要注意的是，如果孩子不太愿意把某人的名字写上，我们一定要引起重视，并找出原因。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">另外，一定每隔几个星期跟孩子一起重新更新并确定下名单。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>③“爱心圈”名单里的也可以！</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">除了最亲近的亲人之外，我们还可以跟孩子一起列一个“爱心圈”名单，这个名单上的人是可以拥抱、亲亲的，是孩子喜爱并信任的人。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">列好“爱心圈”后，孩子就可以安全踏实地享受亲人、长辈、朋友的关心和爱了。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;background-color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·02· </span></strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当老师教完所有安全课程，还对孩子进行了“随堂测试”，来确保孩子真的听懂并记住了。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>1.医生在妈妈陪伴下检查你的隐私部位，可以吗？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>2.如果有一个男人触碰女孩的胸脯，可以吗？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>3.如果一个照顾者帮一个男孩穿衣服，可以吗？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>4.如果一个男人在女孩面前脱衣服，可以吗？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>5.如果一个女人对女孩说漂亮的乳房，可以吗？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>6.如果一个女人带一个正在跟朋友玩耍的女孩去偏僻的街道，可以吗？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这些题目还有很多，<strong>每做一道题，孩子关于安全和危险的界限就越明晰。</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">和孩子一起看完前半部分教学内容后，也让他来回答试试看，帮助他更准确地理解安全知识、掌握安全原则。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">真的不得不佩服老美，用短短的7分钟时间，就把一直以来非常困扰我们的问题解释得清楚明白。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;background-color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·03· </span></strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">视频的最后，更加意义非凡。当孩子问，为什么会有人想要强行背我、亲我、接触我呢？</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">老师的回答充满智慧，既没有使用恐怖的语言让孩子害怕，又非常巧妙地给予了孩子说“不”的勇气：</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因为有一些人生病和脆弱的心理，他们喜欢伤害别人，而且，他们真的很害怕。如果你们不喜欢某人触碰你们的方式，你们必须说“不”，也不需要害怕。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>如果遭遇到这样的坏事，说“不”永远不会太迟，告诉你的爸妈或熟悉的人，还可以让其他孩子远离那个坏人。</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不错，孩子需要具有辨别坏人的能力，更需要具有对坏人说“不”的勇气。种种悲剧的现实告诉我们，那些受伤害的孩子，当然知道摧残他们的是坏人，却没有对他们说“不”的勇气，纵容坏人对自己的伤害，让自己徘徊在痛苦中、久久不能自拔。</span></p><p style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">所以，当和孩子一起看完视频时，请记得跟他郑重其事地保证：</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span 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