《蛤蟆先生去看心理医生》：生活能治愈的，是愿意自愈的人
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">英国心理学家罗伯特·戴博德，曾将人生比作一条河流，看似静静流淌，风平浪静，实则暗流涌动，危险重重。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">罗伯特用无数临床案例，拼凑起了一位“蛤蟆先生”，并讲述了他从抑郁到痊愈的过程。<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">看完《蛤蟆先生去看心理医生》这本书，就会明白：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在人生的长河里，没有谁会是你的摆渡人。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">能将你摆渡过岸的，只能是你自己。</strong></span></section><section><br></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这世上，从来不缺带伤的人。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">蛤蟆先生从小生长在“没有欢乐”的家庭里，父亲古板严苛，母亲懦弱无能。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">从7岁被送去私立学校，到大学选择拉丁语专业，再到毕业后继承家族产业，蛤蟆人生中的每一步，都由别人决定。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<strong><span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他像自己人生里的“局外人”</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，长大后，原生家庭的伤让蛤蟆形成了自卑敏感的性格，继续折磨着他。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">为了得到认可，他努力取悦他们，可换来的却是横加指责；</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">为了看起来合群，他甚至佯装成热情的嬉皮士，活成了别人的“开心果”。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">然而，哪怕是牺牲了自己，也未能换来他人的好感。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在一次酩酊大醉后，他偷了一辆车，又化妆成洗衣妇逃难。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他抢过马，偷过钱，一路颠沛流离，最终被捕入狱。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">蛤蟆的内心防线，也在出狱后彻底崩盘。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他患上了抑郁症，家园被黄鼠狼一度霸占，连最喜欢的村校董事一职，也即将被好友取代。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">或许，每个人的身上，都曾有过蛤蟆先生的影子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">难过的时候，你可以允许自己停下，但是不可以让自己倒下。</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我们都要裹挟着伤痕与失落，在挣扎徘徊中，咬牙向前，寻求内心的治愈。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235) !important;background-size: 22px !important;background-position: center center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 540px !important;"></span></section><ul class="list-paddingleft-1" style="list-style-type: circle;"><li><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">与其等待治愈，不如学会自愈。</span></strong><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p></li></ul><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">蛤蟆彻底颓废之后，一度想要轻生。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">好友河鼠制止了他，并给他推荐了心理医生。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">就这样，他第一次来到“苍鹭小筑”，会见了咨询师苍鹭。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">苍鹭问：“谁让你来的？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">蛤蟆不假思索地说：“河鼠。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但苍鹭却摇摇头，告诉他：“能让你来的，只能是你自己。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">起初，蛤蟆被这个愚蠢的问题激怒，但冷静过后，他才明白：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他必须为自己的人生负责，不能指望别人来救赎自己。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在之后每周一次的问诊中，苍鹭只是抛出问题，任由蛤蟆自己分析原因。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而苍鹭的问题，也一直是这三个：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><blockquote style="outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“这件事，你怎么看？”</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“你有什么感觉？”</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“你会怎么做？”</span></strong></span></section></blockquote></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在苍鹭的引导下，蛤蟆开启了自我性格探索之旅。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在就诊的这几个月中，他始终记得苍鹭说的一句话：<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“要不要与生活和解，你自己说了算。”</strong></span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有了苍鹭的鼓励，蛤蟆终于大胆地迈出了第一步。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他强迫自己早起，沿着花园的小径走向船坞，把废弃已久的赛艇修好，划了一次船。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他耐心地去观察路边的一棵小草，感受自然界色彩的奇妙。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">慢慢地，蛤蟆接纳了痛苦的过去，并开始有意识地关注自己的情绪。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">想要越过人生苦难，抚平伤痕，最终只能靠自己。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">每个人，都是自己的医生。</span></section><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235) !important;background-size: 22px !important;background-position: center center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 540px !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">生活能治愈的，是自己愿意走出来的人。</span></strong></span></p><section><br></section><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;">几个月后，重获新生的</span><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;">蛤蟆即将结束他的治疗之旅。</span><br></p><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">苍鹭在最后一次问诊中，告诉蛤蟆：<br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“如果你为自己负责，你就会知道你有力量改变环境和自己。”</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">蛤蟆谨记着这句忠告，然后告别了苍鹭。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他重拾爱好，给自己买了一艘新船，参加了几次皮划艇比赛；之后又开着自己最喜欢的大篷车，做了一次短途旅行。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在自我疗愈的过程中，蛤蟆不仅重拾快乐，还找回了魄力与勇气。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他从好友手中夺回了村校董事的职位，还竞聘上了河岸板球俱乐部的主席。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他放弃继承令他厌烦的家族产业，转而从事喜爱的房地产。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他安排商业会晤，紧锣密鼓地筹划新公司，将自己每日的行程，安排得满满当当。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一切步入正轨后，蛤蟆又有了一个大胆的决定。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他要和过去的自己来一次正式地告别。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他卖掉了蛤蟆庄园，走出了这座承载他悲伤，见证他抑郁的豪宅。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他在美丽的河岸边，另建新居，开始享受生活所带来的真正幸福。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他用自己的故事，告诉了我们：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">生活能治愈的，永远是自己愿意走出来的人。<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">想要摆脱生命中的伤痛，就要敢于迈出自己的第一步。</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“面对伤害，我们无处可逃，但必须完成的事，唯有靠自己才能行。”</strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人生苦乐无常，我们总会受伤，也总会有很多迷茫。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只要能沉得住气，扛得住难，你自己就是那股最强大的力量。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当你在自我治愈的路上，主动迈出第一步的时候，新世界的大门，也会随之为你打开。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></section><br>转载声明：本文转载自「心理讲师联盟」，搜索「x66657172」即可关注，[<a target="_blank" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/xRwdGYVAvv8ZMJpIWaeqBA">阅读原文</a>]。</div><p></p>
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