好父母的三要决：稳住嘴、好情绪和……
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max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有人说：在教育孩子的路上，心在哪里，花就开在哪里。</span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">然而，很多父母都认为自己花了很多时间和精力在孩子身上，但是孩子的表现不尽如人意。<br></span><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"><br>做事拖拉、磨蹭，没有时间观念、沉迷于电子产品，脾气大，喜欢回怼家长，自以为是……</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如此种种，令父母焦虑不安，忧心困惑。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实，越是如此，我们越不能乱了方寸，更要静下心来，稳住自己。</span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<strong style="color: rgb(72, 68, 133); font-size: 17px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">稳住自己的嘴</span></strong></section><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">好的教育，从好的陪伴开始，而好的陪伴离不开亲子间良好的沟通与交流。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以父母要稳住自己，首先要从稳住自己的嘴做起。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">管好自己的嘴，忍住唠叨、责骂，尽量不要在激动、愤怒时，脱口而出。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">之前热播的电视剧《小舍得》，其中有一剧情说到夏君山在辅导女儿欢欢作业的时候，情绪失控，忍不住冲着女儿发火。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">越说越来劲，越骂越不理智。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235) !important;background-size: 22px !important;background-position: center center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;height: auto;width: 100%;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果欢欢哭吐了，事后还跟妈妈表示：越来越不喜欢爸爸。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">看到这，很多父母都深有同感：生气时说出的话，如同泼出的水，收不回。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">既伤了孩子的自尊，打击了孩子的自信，也让亲子关系渐行渐远。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">尤其对于叛逆期的孩子，父母过度的说教，就像烦杂的、高分贝的噪音，扰得孩子想要逃离，令亲子关系变得紧张。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">严重的，还会做出一些过激的举动，令家长追悔莫及。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">上海一名17岁的男孩因为在学校与同学发生矛盾，母亲在开车接他回家的路上，就此事训斥他。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">母子发生争吵，男孩赌气下车，跳桥身亡。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 578px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">去年，武汉一名初三的男生，因为在学校与同学打牌，其母亲被叫到学校后，在班级走廊当着同学的面责骂了他一通、并扇了他耳光，男生最终跳楼身亡 。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">俗话说：“良言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒”。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不当的言辞就像枪林弹雨，句句伤人；而温暖的话语则让人如沐春风。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">能管住嘴的父母，才能赢得孩子的信任，让孩子愿意走近你。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母说话的语气和温度，影响着孩子成长的高度和格局。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 574px;visibility: visible !important;height: 383px;"></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">02</section><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 68, 133);font-size: 17px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">稳住自己的情绪</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母的情绪会直接影响孩子的性格养成。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">情绪稳定的父母，培养出来的孩子淡定从容，自信阳光；</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">情绪多变的父母，养育的孩子要么胆小懦弱、敏感自卑，要不就暴燥顽劣。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以在孩子成长的路上，为了孩子的身心健康，父母们都应该学会稳住自己的情绪，好好管理、掌控好自己的情绪。</span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235) !important;background-size: 22px !important;background-position: center center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;height: 381px;width: 578px;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">曾听过这样的一则故事：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有个小男孩，脾气很不好。他父亲给了他一包钉子，让他每次发脾气时，就在墙上钉一颗钉子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一开始，男孩每天在墙上钉很多钉子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">后来，他慢慢学着控制自己的情绪，每天钉在墙上的钉子数量逐渐变少。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因为，他发现，控制脾气比钉钉子更容易。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他把自己的变化告诉了父亲，父亲建议他，如果每天能够控制不发脾气，就从墙上拔下一颗钉子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">时间一天天过去，男孩终于告诉父亲，所有的钉子都拔光了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父亲指着墙上拔下钉子后留下的洞，对男孩说：</span></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="47" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“墙再也回不到以前光滑完整的样子了。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); box-sizing: border-box !important;">我们每次对别人发脾气，都会给人留下伤痕，就像这些洞一样。”</span></strong></span></p></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">即使时过境迁，伤过依然留痕。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这个故事，看似在教育孩子，其实同样也适用于父母。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">管控好情绪，是每个父母的必修课。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">情绪来的时候，尝试用时间换空间，也就是缓冲下火的时间换取冷静应对的空间。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">为避免起口角冲突，暂时快速远离孩子，让自己冷静下来。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">找个独处的空间，深呼吸、听听音乐、看看新闻，做些转移自己注意力的事情。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">情绪来的时候，尝试“</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">表里不一</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”，想像我们面对的不是孩子，而是外人。</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">很多人在面对外人的时候，即使内心有很大的不满，多数时候也都能够控制自己的言行。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这就是所谓的“厚他人而薄家人”。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实在对待孩子的问题上，我们有情绪的时候，更应该要做到厚家人不薄自已。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">学会稳住情绪、化解情绪，理性地用爱去理解、包容和引导孩子，尽力为孩子的身心健康保驾护航。</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;">03</p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">稳住自己的心</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有人说：“心是万物的主宰，有容乃大。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">能稳住自己的心，做心大的父母，一切便会豁然开朗。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">诗歌《走在自己的时区里》曾这样写道：</span></section><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="58" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“世上每个人都有自己的发展时区。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他们都在自己的时区，你在你的，在命运为你安排的属于你自己的时区里，一切都非常准时。”</strong></span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母有父母的时区，孩子也有孩子的时区。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">做个心大的父母，学会用理解和包容的心去接纳孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">做个心大的父母，不要过度挑剔和要求孩子，不要无限放大孩子的缺点和不足，更不能因此打击孩子的自尊和自信。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母要善于发现，并聚焦孩子的闪光点和优点，及时给予肯定、赏识和鼓励。</span></strong></section><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 562px;visibility: visible !important;height: 375px;"></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">曾听过一个有关著名教育家陶行知先生“</span><strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">四颗糖</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”的故事：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有一名男生想用砖头去砸同学，陶行知看到后及时制止了他，并叫他到办公室。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">陶行知了解情况后，回到办公室，发现男生在等着他，便掏出一颗糖奖励男生，原因是男生比他更准时。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">紧接着，又奖励男生一颗糖，并说：“我不让你打人，你立刻就住手了，说明你尊重我。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">然后陶行知奖励男生第三颗糖，理由是男生要砸的同学欺负女生，陶行知认为男生有正义感。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">最后，男生主动向陶行知认错，认为自己做的不对，不应该对同学动手。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">听到这，陶行知又奖励了他一颗糖。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">整个过程下来，陶行知都没有说过一句责备的话，但却达到了教育的目的。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“四颗糖”的故事传递的正是这样一种大度教育、赏识教育与正面管教的力量。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;">做心大的父母，稳住自己的心，不仅有助于拓宽教育的格局，还有助于拓广孩子成长的格局。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">稳住自己的心，父母才能赢得孩子的尊重和信任，从容走进孩子的内心。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">04</section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">都说父母是孩子最好的老师，父母对孩子最有效的的教育莫过于言传身教。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母稳住自己的嘴，孩子才会自信开朗；</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母稳住自己的情绪，孩子才会大气从容；</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">父母稳住的自己的心，孩子才会身心健康。</span></section><p style="margin: 25px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(72, 68, 133); box-sizing: border-box !important;">能够稳住自己的父母，身上自带光芒，照亮着孩子，也照亮着自己。</span></strong></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="97823" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="outline: 0px; 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