暑假，如何把孩子从手机里拉出来？最好的方法在这里
<section style="display: none;" data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></section><section style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><section style="display: none;" data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn"><br></section></section><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">暑假，是孩子们休息的黄金时期，很多孩子都会无节制的玩手机，这应该是家长们最头痛的，如何利用好暑假把孩子从手机里拉出来？</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">最好的办法在这里！</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88356"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;width: 120px;"><br></section></section><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大家先来看一个故事：</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">晚上11点，小峰屋里的灯还亮着，妈妈悄悄打开他的房门，准备把牛奶端给他，听见开门声，小峰迅速把手机塞在作业本下，可这哪逃得过妈妈的眼睛。妈妈觉得一股无名之火蹭一下上来了。</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">“又玩手机，每次因为玩手机耽误写作业，说你多少次了，再这样我把你手机没收了。”</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">小峰红着脸：“好了好了，我查个资料，又没干别的。”</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">“真的吗？给我看看。”妈妈夺过手机，不出所料，手机上播放着游戏音乐，还有游戏的视频。</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">妈妈更生气了：“每天陪着你熬夜，担心你累着了，饿着了，你倒好，天天迷着玩手机不说，还学会撒谎了。”</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">小峰也有点急了：“在学校憋了一天了，回到家还不能放松一会，活着有什么意思。”说着把手机往桌上一扔，转身去客厅了。</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">望着孩子的背影，小峰妈妈困惑了。自从孩子上了初中，给他配了智能手机，感觉他在家的时候一直在捧着手机，不是在听音乐，就是在看游戏，要么就是找同学聊天，家长又逼不得、说不得、更打不得，可怎么办呢？</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">要解决这个问题，我们要先看一下手机到底有什么魔力，让孩子们如此恋恋不舍？</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子从手机里获得了什么？</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1.暂时的轻松</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">玩手机为他们提供了暂时的庇护所，可以让他们获得短暂的轻松。尤其是性格内向的孩子，在虚拟世界里，他们可以尽情倾诉而无所顾忌，深陷其中、无法自拔。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2.及时的反馈</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有些孩子沉溺于手机游戏，是因为他们在急需要外界肯定的青春期，却无法从现实中获得回应，做得好做的坏，家长没有及时给出反馈。</span></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">手机游戏不同，每赢一步，都会有相应的奖励，玩得熟练，就可以过关斩将、畅通无阻，这种满足感和获得感是孩子在现实中无法获得的。<strong>因此，即便是家长三令五申、恨不得为了游戏断绝亲子关系，孩子依然无法斩断对手机游戏的爱。</strong></span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3.内心的激情</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多孩子在家长的安排和干涉下按部就班地生活，到了青春期，他们的自我意识觉醒，想要自己做决定，但家长干涉的欲望未消，孩子被牵绊着艰难前行，压抑感如影随形。</span></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">一旦他们接触到新鲜自由的网络世界，一定顿觉神清气爽。</span></span><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">在手机里，他们可以扎堆追捧自己的偶像，为之如痴如狂、肆意挥洒，他们可以谈论平时家长不允许他们涉足的话题，无拘无束；</span><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">他们还可以在游戏的世界里展现自己的能力，豪气冲天。</span><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">这许多乐趣，怎不令人流连忘返、乐此不疲？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">所以，如果你的孩子沉迷手机，对外面的世界兴趣减弱，那家长就要反省，是不是一些对孩子来说至关重要的东西，我们家长没有给予他。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br><br><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如何让孩子少玩手机？</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1. 理解和接纳</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">这可以给我们家长一个启示，对于我们看不惯的东西，也许深入了解其中的趣味和吸引力，会获得不错的效果。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">比如，孩子喜欢听手机里的音乐，那我们就跟着一起听一听，说不定你同样会爱上他爱的音乐，这时候一起聊聊歌星和音乐，听孩子讲一讲你不知道的歌星的奋斗史、音乐背后感人的故事：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">一是可以跟孩子交流感情，二是满足了孩子的倾诉欲，让孩子获得满足感和成就感，岂不是其乐融融、两全其美。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">对你不太了解的又无伤大雅的事物，家长不妨保持宽容和接纳的态度，这会让孩子产生被理解、被尊重之感，拆除了两代人之间的围墙，你的建议和规矩孩子便更能听到心里。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2. 共同制定规则</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">告诉孩子，你理解他玩手机的需求，但因为他这个阶段学习是不能放松的，所以对于玩手机的时间和限制，一家人一起制定一个共同遵守的规则，注意，<strong>规矩不是单方面限制孩子的，而是需要全家共同遵守。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子使用手机规矩可以包括：</span><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">手机的作用是，跟家人保持联系，所以，学习时必须关机，晚上11点之后必须关机。在家可以用手机听歌玩游戏，但有时间限制，在游戏时间，家人一起分享好音乐好游戏，而在作业时间，手机绝对不能再用。远离色情暴力内容，这是最低原则，同时也不能在网络上放纵自己，骂人、说脏话，传播谣言等。</span></span></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3.指引孩子有“路”可走</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">最重要的是要引导孩子走上一条可行之路，能让他们把心愿投之于实践、付之于行动，从现实生活中获得成就感，这样，孩子才能更有方向感，才不会再沉迷于虚幻。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align:justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;">具体做法可以是培养孩子一些书法、乐器等方面的兴趣：可以是跟孩子一起运动、一起阅读；还可以鼓励孩子多和他人交往，增加孩子投入生活的乐趣；等等。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 2em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong>如果你也遇到了假期里孩子沉迷手机的问题，不妨试试上面这些方法，效果也许会让你意想不到哦~</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><br></p></section></section></section></section><p style="white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: normal;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;">来源 | 高二家长频道</span></p>
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