孩子不自律是本能，父母让他自律是本事
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0px;padding: 0px;"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: -4px 4px 0px auto;padding: 0px;width: 1px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);transform: rotate(45deg);"><br style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;"></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 15px 8px 0px;padding: 0px;clear: both;line-height: 24px;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 15px 8px 0px;padding: 0px;clear: both;line-height: 24px;"><section style="margin: 15px 8px;padding: 0px;clear: both;"><strong style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">自律的孩子不是天生的，都是从父母的他律开始的。</strong><br style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;"></section><section style="margin: 15px 8px;padding: 0px;clear: both;"><strong style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">从小给孩子立好规矩，培养他们自觉主动的好习惯，才能教出自律的孩子。<span></span><br></strong></section></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px auto;padding: 0px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-size: 17px;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: normal;width: 252px;line-height: 16px;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;display: -webkit-box;-webkit-box-pack: center;-webkit-box-align: center;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: -3px 0px 0px;padding: 0px;-webkit-box-flex: 1;width: 0px;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;height: 0px;border-top: 1px dashed rgb(191, 196, 204);"><br style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;"></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 7px;padding: 0px;width: 10px;line-height: 16px;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 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2;text-indent: 0px;text-transform: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;margin: 5px 0px 0px;padding: 0px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 17px;text-align: center;"><span></span></section><p style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最近被一个8岁的小男孩圈粉了。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他是一名小学生，每天坚持六点半起床洗漱，然后晨读，目前已经坚持了400天了。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">https://v.qq.com/x/page/l3241ttzmkb.html</p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一开始，孩子也坚持不下来，但是妈妈每天提醒他、监督他，他就慢慢养成了习惯。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">以前孩子也特别喜欢看电视，妈妈就自己拿着书看，给孩子做榜样。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">后来在家庭氛围的影响下，孩子慢慢就爱上了看书，一年级以后家里电视就没开过。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每天中午回来，孩子就窝在沙发上自己阅读，有时候看哭了，有时候看笑了。</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他还会拿着书本追着妈妈说：“这本书特别好看，妈妈你也看看呀。”</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心理学家塞德兹说：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“</strong><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人如陶瓷，小时候会形成一生的雏形。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每一个孩子生来都是贪图享乐、追求安逸的，尤其是在学习过程中，孩子习惯畏难、总想放弃，但父母决不能听之任之。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">自律的孩子不是天生的，而在于父母后天的培养。</span></strong></section><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-align: center;margin-top: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长不在后面推</span></strong></span></section><p style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-align: center;margin-top: 5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子永远不会自己主动学</span></strong></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一位爸爸，曾偷偷拍下了孩子写作业的全过程。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一会推推门，一会点点墙，走神、发呆、上厕所，各种搞小动作，就是不写作业。</span></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">整整9分钟的时间，孩子真正花在作业上的时间，却只有2分多钟。</span></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">许多父母纷纷感叹：“仿佛看到了自己家孩子。”</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">是啊，这个孩子暴露的，其实是无数个孩子的通病。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们自律性差，自主学习的能力低，一旦缺少父母的监督和管教，很容易管不住自己。</span></strong></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">微博曾有一项关于“中小学生如何过假期”的投票，结果显示：80%的孩子选择用睡觉、吃饭、打游戏来填满生活。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">懒惰是人的天性，孩子也不例外。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有研究证明，孩子6岁之前，大脑前额皮质发育不成熟，学习动机尚不明确，自控力也非常弱。</span></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《清华学霸教子经》里有这样一句话：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“父母要明白，孩子小时候缺乏自制力，对学习等艰苦的事情，不主动是常态，主动是非常态。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以他懒得读书、拖拖拉拉不想写作业都再正常不过了。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果这个时候，父母作为孩子的“第一责任人”，选择撒手不管，孩子只会越来越肆无忌惮、放纵自己。</span></strong></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母不在后面推着孩子走，孩子永远也学不会自己主动学习。</span></strong></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一位妈妈，一直认为孩子有自己为自己负责的意识。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以女儿几点起床、几点睡觉、几点读书，她从来不管。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对于女儿的学习成绩，她也是不强求、不过问，她认为孩子感兴趣比较重要。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">结果不到三年，女儿成绩一落千丈，在班级垫底。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她放纵孩子的这段时间，女儿还迷上了打游戏，上学迟到、上课走神，每天大部分时间都花在了游戏上。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">甚至，女儿还背着她悄悄往游戏充了几千块钱。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">没有天生自觉的孩子，每个孩子身上或多或少都有惰性。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有教育专家曾说过：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“小孩子会任性，但大人不可以放弃监督的责任。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子之所以是孩子，就在于他缺乏自觉性。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们总会觉得，上课不如睡懒觉舒服，做题不如刷手机轻松。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因此更需要父母，制定规则、时刻监督，帮助孩子去除本性中的任性和散漫。</span></strong></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 25px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span></span></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每一个自觉自律的孩子</span></strong></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都是“管”出来的</span></strong></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个二年级的孩子，能有多自律？</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她坚持六点半起床，开始晨读；</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不需要爸妈盯着，回家第一时间主动先把作业写完；</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每天坚持练字、运动、阅读.....</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这些习惯她已经坚持了好几年，雷打不动。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但她的好习惯也不是一开始就有的，这背后其实是父母在不厌其烦地管教、约束和督促。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她的妈妈从小给她制定了一系列的家规，要求孩子严格遵守；</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">还会给她制定学习计划，每天陪着孩子一起完成。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">慢慢地，女孩就养成了自律的习惯。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每一个主动学习、自觉自律的孩子，其实都是父母“管”出来的。</span></strong></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就像高考状元杨晨煜的妈妈所说：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“一定要在孩子没有自主思考能力时，帮助他养成习惯；</strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">监督的过程很痛苦，因为你得时时刻刻盯着他；</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但定型之后，孩子未来的路会很好走。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子自律的起点，一定是依赖于父母的“他律”。</span></strong></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">易烊千玺的妈妈，在他2岁就给他报了十几个兴趣班，风雨无阻带他上课；</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以才有了现在，这个唱跳俱佳、演技精湛、极度自律的少年。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">董卿的父亲，从小就要求她每天抄成语、背古诗，天还没亮就让她起来跑步；</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以到如今，她仍然坚持每天阅读一小时，卧室里没有电子产品只有书。</span></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们的父母，教育方式都十分严厉，但这份狠心和绝情背后，其实是为人父母最大的远见：</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">让孩子把自律变成一种生活方式。</span></strong></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子哪会知道，现在如果不肯吃苦、不肯学习，将来要受多少旁人的白眼和生活的磨难。</span></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《朗读笔记》中有句话是这样说的：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“所有的婴儿出生都是平等的，没有人会说话、数数、读书或写字，但这些孩子在进入幼儿园时却是不平等的。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">差异的原因在于，他们的父母是尽力培养他们，还是仅仅看着他们长大而已。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个自律自觉的孩子背后，一定站着一个严于管教的父母。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">给孩子过多的自由，才是对孩子最大的不负责任。</span></strong></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为一个不自律的孩子，在人生的赛道上只会越跑越慢，最后被人远远甩在身后。</span></section><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子自律的习惯</span></strong></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(72, 68, 133);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">越早培养越好</span></strong></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">刘璇曾因“铁血教育”引发争议。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她给儿子的计划表，除了睡觉之外，其他时间都安排得满满当当，动画片一天只给孩子看15分钟。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多网友都指责她对孩子太苛刻了，毕竟儿子才4岁。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但刘璇却认为：这是在给孩子建立规矩和自律，孩子只有小时候控制好了，长大了才能自觉。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《卡尔威特的教育》中说过：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“一种好的习惯在孩子幼小时很容易形成，但在他们长大后就很难养成。</strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">反之，孩子如果在小时候就有很多不良习惯，长大后也难以改掉。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因此，孩子自律的习惯，越早培养越好。</span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="list-style-type: disc;"><li style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;letter-spacing: 1px;"><section style="margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">主动学习的习惯</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></section></li></ul><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要想孩子养成主动学习的习惯，关键不在于父母的催促，而是提前立好规矩。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">郭晶晶是一位非常严厉的“虎妈”，她特别注重孩子的习惯培养。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她给孩子定下的规矩，没有讨价还价的余地。就算是爷爷霍震霆过来看孩子，她也要求孩子必须先写完作业才能玩。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她说：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“希望孩子可以养成好的习惯，不能随心所欲，这样对孩子的成长也是不好的。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在孩子小时候，父母就应该制定相应的规则，并陪着孩子严格执行，比如写完作业才能玩、作业完成后必须检查、每天必须复习和预习等等。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">让规矩来督促孩子主动学习，比家长跟在后面唠叨催促更管用。</span></section><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="list-style-type: disc;"><li style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;letter-spacing: 1px;"><p style="margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">管理时间的习惯</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></p></li></ul><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多孩子，总是习惯拖延：</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">周一要交的作业，总是要拖到星期天晚上才补；</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">爸妈不催着起床，就觉得迟到几分钟也没关系。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子并不是一开始就知道什么时候该学习，什么时候该玩，迟到了会错过哪些。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以父母一定要早早培养孩子自我管理的能力。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第60届国际数学竞赛金牌获得者邓明扬曾分享过自己的假期作息表。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他将自己的学习、阅读、运动时间都安排得井井有条，并且给自己每周都安排了几个小目标，比如要看几本课外书。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而他之所以能有如此强的时间管理能力，离不开妈妈的教育。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很小的时候，妈妈就教会他列每日计划表。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">制定计划的时候，妈妈也会充分尊重他的想法，只给出一些建议。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans 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!important;">他感觉自己每天都很有成就感，也在不知不觉中有了很好的时间观念，养成了自己管理时间的习惯。</span></section><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="list-style-type: disc;"><li style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;letter-spacing: 1px;"><p style="margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">坚持阅读的习惯</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word 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!important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">谢尔盖米哈尔科夫说过：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box 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Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">良好的阅读习惯，可以让孩子受益一生。</span></section><section data-id="49660" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="818a8" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: medium;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;max-width: 100%;"><p style="width: 90px;margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;box-sizing: border-box;max-width: 100%;margin-top: 20px;"><span></span></p></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 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100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;caret-color: red;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“如果你养成好的习惯，一辈子都享不尽它给你带来的利息，如果你养成了坏的习惯，一辈子都在偿还无尽的债务。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><p style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果在孩子小的时候，父母没有及时管教，让懒散成为孩子的常态。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那么当他长大了，会彻底失去竞争力，落入平庸。</span></section><section style="white-space: normal;margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: 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