父母若管不住自己，很多教育都是无用的（深度好文）！
<div style="max-width:677px !important;"><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></p><section style="white-space: normal;text-align: right;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;min-height: 1em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);font-size: 14px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作者：<span style="letter-spacing: 0.54px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">枫子</span></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;text-align: right;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;min-height: 1em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);font-size: 14px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">来源：女儿派<span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">（ID：nverpai）</span></span></section><div class="quote"><blockquote>孩子最有可能的成长模式，就是复制现在的父母。<br><br>所以，想要一个怎样的孩子，请先成为那样的父母吧。</blockquote></div><p style="margin: 20px 32px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<br></p><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">经常听到身边不少家长抱怨：现在的孩子，怎么就那么难管呢？</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">上到十几岁的青春期少年，下到只有3岁的小人儿，家长管的越多，孩子越反抗；家长管得越紧，孩子越叛逆。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不禁让人困惑，到底是哪出了问题呢？</span></section><p style="margin: 25px 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">樊登老师说：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“你在管教孩子过程中，如果你使劲特别大，感觉特别累，孩子也特别痛苦，那么一定是方法错了。”</strong><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“要管好孩子，要先管好自己。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看过这样一张图：</span><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">地铁上，妈妈看书，孩子在一旁也拿起一本书看，另一个妈妈在玩手机，孩子也凑过去盯着手机看。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在教育的路上，父母若不能做好榜样，孩子很难不走歪路。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有研究发现，孩子是个全然的“感知器官”，孩子的眼睛像录音机，耳朵就像收音机。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母的一言一行，孩子都照单全收。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">然后从他们的视角，将真相粗暴地展现在父母面前。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，一个家庭最该被教育的，是父母。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母管不好自己，所有的教育都是无用功。</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(138, 117, 96);letter-spacing: 2px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">01</span></strong></strong></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的问题</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都是父母问题的折射</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心理学家杨杰曾分享过一个案例。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一个上小学的男孩，上课不认真听讲，经常和同学打架，不写作业，性格孤僻......</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">老师三天两头就找家长，有一次老师更是反映:“孩子上课瞪着老师，眼神很可怕。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">妈妈崩溃了，她觉得孩子简直无药可救。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可杨杰在了解情况后发现：</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的问题其实在妈妈身上。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">妈妈对孩子的教育简单粗暴，不是吼就是揍。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">日复一日，孩子也变得暴躁。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">妈妈抽他一下，他还妈妈两下。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">母子两常常斗争一晚上，孩子故意不写作业，困了就躺地上睡，而妈妈也跟孩子怄气，孩子一合眼就拿扎一下!</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">杨杰建议妈妈停止打孩子，妈妈感到很委屈：“我能用的方法都用了，是因为没招数了才打孩子。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">多少父母，自己病了，却逼着孩子吃药，父母自己不反思，却逼着孩子改变。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的问题只是果，因在父母身上。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就像李玫瑾教授说的：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“当你发现孩子很难教育时，其实问题很早就有了。<br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的问题往往是大人造就的，孩子的每种心理或行为问题，一定和父母的行为有关，和父母的教育方式有关。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《别等孩子长大了，才后悔你现在做的太多》一书中也指出：</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的表现与父母的问题密切关联。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可悲的是，父母的眼睛只盯在了孩子身上，对自己的错误却毫无察觉。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">劲都往孩子身上使，只顾大刀阔斧地砍掉孩子的毛病，只管孩子，不管自己。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这样“双标”教育最容易导致的结果就是：</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母越管越头痛，孩子越来越叛逆。</strong></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(138, 117, 96);letter-spacing: 2px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">02</span></strong></strong></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好的教育</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都是往自己身上使劲</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">杨澜曾说：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“别把劲儿都使在孩子身上，如果自己充实，快乐，有责任感，有情绪管理能力，孩子会模仿你的。”</strong></span></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">教育的关键在于教育父母，父母做好了，孩子自然也不会差。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">聪明的父母，都懂得在这4个方面管理好自己，父母内心充实而丰盈了，才能反过来给孩子带去更好的人格影响。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1. 管好自己的言行，培养孩子的修养</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">曾看到这样一幕，一个男孩随口说了一句粗话，身后的爸爸，上前就是一巴掌：“我靠，谁叫你讲脏话的？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如此不文明的方式，怎么可能教会孩子讲文明？</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“忠孝礼仪，我怎么要求郭麒麟的，我就怎么对待我父亲和他人。”郭德纲说。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他在跟父亲打电话时，从来不敢坐着，对父亲永远恭恭敬敬；对长辈，也一直彬彬有礼。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为他先严格要求自己，给孩子做出了典范，再反过来规范孩子的言行举止时，一切就都水到渠成了。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在娱乐圈，郭麒麟一直以礼貌待人著称。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">郭麒麟和父亲坐在一起时，永远挺直腰杆，毕恭毕敬。父亲说话时，永远站在身后，认真聆听，回话时都是“您”开头。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对外，也是谦卑有礼，见到长辈，赶紧弯腰打招呼，嘘寒问暖身体如何？别人帮忙时，“谢谢，麻烦您了”常挂嘴边。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母的一言一行都是孩子的“标杆”。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">想要孩子成为什么样的人，父母要先行。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2. 管好自己的情绪，培养孩子的好性格</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看过这样一个视频，二胎家庭里，姐姐无聊时会用手戳弟弟眼睛。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生气时会拿玩具狠狠地砸弟弟头。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">姐弟起争执时，会对弟弟直接拳打脚踢。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">姐姐还会没缘由的上手就打、推、抓，扇弟弟。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每每这时，妈妈都会很生气的拿出针来扎姐姐，用衣架打嘴巴。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">从早到晚，家里到处充斥着妈妈的吼叫，姐姐的大哭大叫，弟弟的哭喊。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">后来，育儿师问妈妈:“你小时候，妈妈也这样对你吗？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">妈妈几度哽咽，不愿再回忆，虽然不记得犯了什么错，但父母愤怒的表情和那一句句“你怎么不去死”，一直刻在了她脑海里。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多时候，她也知道发脾气不好，可就是忍不住对孩子发怒。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">暴力情绪就这样在亲子间代代相传。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母管不好自己的情绪，孩子遇事也控制不住自己，只会复制父母发怒的样子。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">胡适曾说：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“</strong><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果我学得了一丝一毫的好脾气，如果我学得了一点点待人接物的和气，如果我能宽恕人、体谅人--我都得感谢我的慈母。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母遇事时只有先控制好自己的脾气，才能看见孩子情绪背后的需求，引导孩子感知，管理自己的情绪。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如此，</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子才能在父母的理解和接纳中学会共情。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3. 管好自己的欲望，培养孩子的自律</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">前两天在朋友家，刚好碰见她母女俩互怼：</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“看了多久的电视了，还不去写作业？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“爸爸玩了一上午游戏了，你怎么不说他？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">说完，女儿一脸不情愿地拿出了作业本，眼睛却一直盯着电视。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“像什么话？哪有边写作业，边看电视的？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“呵，就刚刚，是谁一边做饭，一边手机不离手的？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友生气了，吼道：“我是你妈，小孩能和大人比吗？”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“你自己都管不好，凭什么管我?”女儿把笔一丢，站起来就进了房间，把门狠狠一甩。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">白岩松说：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“</strong><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">天天在家打麻将的父母，是很难教会孩子读书的，我认为在中国的教育里面，最值得吐槽的是家长。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个放纵自己的父母，怎么可能管好孩子？</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">浙江宁波，一位爸爸为了培养孩子对文言文的兴趣，每天连电视都不看了，下班就坐在书桌前，将父女俩最爱看的动画片《千与千寻》改写成文言文。</span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">从小到大，只要孩子在学习，爸爸就会放下手头上的事，安静的坐在边上看书。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如今，女儿每天放学后就自觉完成作业，学习上的事从不需要父母督促。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而且在爸爸的感染下，女儿也爱上了文言文，六年级的她，甚至也学着父亲用文言文写日记。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母“管好自己”，比管孩子100次都有效。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母只有先管好自己想玩游戏的冲动，管好自己想玩手机的欲望，孩子才能在父母严于律己的熏陶下习得自律。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">4. 管好自己的习惯，培养孩子的坚持</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎有个问题：父母有哪些习惯影响了你一生？</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一位网友回答：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“</strong><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">十几年来，我的爸爸坚持每天6点半起床，看书充电。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而我的妈妈，只要有空闲，也会拿起书本认真阅读。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每天晚饭后，父母总是相约在楼下空地打打球，或是跑跑步，回家后总是乐此不疲地交流运动的好处。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">多年以后，我才惊觉这些是父母“刻意为之”的教育。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">曾经的我，早上起不来，一看书就发困，一运动就犯懒，可当我看到父母都还在坚持，就突然觉得早起也没有那么痛苦了，读书好像也没有那么难，运动也成了每天的习惯。”</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">教育家福泽谕吉说：</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“家庭是习惯的学校，父母是习惯的老师。”</strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每一个孩子都是天生的模仿者，培养孩子坚持力很难，但父母自身不放弃，孩子便会在跟随父母的脚步中成长。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(118, 74, 67);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">教诲是条漫长的路，唯有榜样是条捷径。</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(138, 117, 96);letter-spacing: 2px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">03</span></strong></strong></strong></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母不放弃自我成长</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子不断努力成长</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">上海光华剑桥校长雷冬冬就说：</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“<span style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">与其每天都把时间和精力都花在孩子身上，试图掌控孩子成长的每一秒钟，做父母的不如就把自己的事情做好。”</span></strong></span></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她是这么说也是这么做的。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她有自己的兴趣爱好，有自己的工作和责任，她是一位妈妈，更是一位教育者。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她一直致力于自我成长，女儿也学着母亲不断努力成长。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">女儿初三毕业后，就独自前往英国求学，最后考上了牛津大学。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">女儿感谢道：“我成长过程中，妈妈给我的时间不多，却做足了榜样。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多父母在有了孩子之后，都一门心思的扑在孩子身上，付出了很多，孩子却不买账。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这是因为放弃自我成长的父母，很难给孩子积极正面的影响，孩子也因此缺乏向上的动力。</span></section><p style="margin: 25px 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">托尔斯泰说：</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.498);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“全部教育，或者说千分之九百九十九的教育都归结到榜样上，归结到父母自己生活的端正和完善上”。</strong></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(118, 74, 67);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子最有可能的成长方式，就是复制现在的父母。</span></strong></span><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">教育，就是先自教，而后教人。先自管，而后管子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只有我们先成为更好的自己，才能引导孩子成为更优秀的人。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="margin: 25px 16px 20px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;min-height: 1em;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: normal;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 27.2px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 13px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">本文来源于女儿派（ID: nverpai），关于养育女儿的干货，这里都有；关于养育女儿的苦甜，这里都懂；愿她们一生纯良，一生知礼，一世得体。</span></span></section>
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