“孩子，我不怕你走弯路”
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0);"><p><strong>第</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: -1px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 10%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 30px;height: 30px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;border-color: rgba(254, 188, 0, 0.57);box-shadow: rgb(254, 227, 95) 3px 3px 0px;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="transform: rotateZ(90deg);"><section style="margin-top: 13px;"><section style="border-top: 1px dashed rgba(254, 188, 0, 0.57);"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-top: 1px dashed rgba(254, 188, 0, 0.57);"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section 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0.57);"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="isolation: isolate;"><section style="line-height: 0;letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 20px;color: rgb(254, 156, 0);"><p><strong>6</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;min-width: 10%;height: auto;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 30px;height: 30px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;border-color: rgba(254, 188, 0, 0.57);box-shadow: rgb(254, 227, 95) 3px 3px 0px;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="transform: rotateZ(90deg);"><section style="margin-top: 13px;"><section style="border-top: 1px dashed rgba(254, 188, 0, 0.57);"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-top: 1px dashed rgba(254, 188, 0, 0.57);"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="isolation: isolate;"><section style="line-height: 0;letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 20px;color: rgb(254, 156, 0);"><p><strong>期</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><section style="font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="padding-top: 10px;padding-bottom: 10px;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 2 2 0%;align-self: stretch;height: auto;border-style: solid solid solid none;border-width: 1px;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 214, 88);"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="line-height: 0;"><p><br></p></section></section><section style="padding-top: 5px;padding-bottom: 5px;padding-left: 10px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: flex-start;height: auto;border-width: 0px;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="font-size: 19px;color: rgb(249, 168, 37);"><p><strong>读者（@你好再见）问：</strong></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong>“我怕自己让孩子走弯路，怎么办”</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="padding-top: 10px;padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;display: inline-block;width: 675px;vertical-align: top;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="color: rgb(114, 112, 112);"><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;">慢慢，很巧诶，我以前的取网名也叫慢慢，因为我妈嫌弃我做事太慢。</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;"> </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 14px;">我35岁了，可是跟7岁的儿子有很多相同的兴趣</span></strong><span style="font-size: 14px;">，比如他喜欢看《刺客伍六七》、《火影忍者》，这些我都很喜欢。</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;">记得小学接触《仙剑奇侠传》、中学学到《桃花源记》，一直以来都很向往远离世俗的桃源生活。</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;">我不主动关心国际新闻，也不了解行业动态，甚至不会理财，不晓得学区房，不懂小朋友的辅导班兴趣班，升学形式和加分项。</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;"> </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 14px;">对于我来讲，其实世俗的功利不重要，大部分时间我觉得都没所谓。</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 14px;"> </span></strong></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;">但是关系到下一代时，我会犹豫自己的价值观是不是不合主流，我是不是落后于其他同龄的父母。</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;">在坚定自己的内心以前，我走过了好多艰难的路，<strong>所以我很担心自己给下一代开启困难模式</strong>，求慢慢解答。</span></p><p> </p></section></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;"><span></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: rgb(0, 122, 170);"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;"> 慢慢答 </strong></span></p><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">另一位慢慢你好，很开心收到你的留言。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">从你的文字里，我感受到一种纯粹、简单，让我置身桃花源的感觉。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">同时，我还感受到你作为一位母亲，对孩子十足的关心和爱。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">原本，你想追求的生活跟孩子的成长并不矛盾。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">可因为主流价值的影响，你的头脑里产生了一种假设：</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">如果我保持现在的生活，可能会让孩子走上一条困难的路，那我就是一个坏妈妈。</span></strong></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">你很担心如果不做点什么，孩子就会输在起跑线上，他的人生就会困难重重。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">可我看来，并非如此。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">你不仅是一位懂孩子的妈妈，还是这个时代非常稀缺的好妈妈。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">为什么我会这么说呢？</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">因为我看到你身上的两个特点，也是给孩子人生最好的礼物。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 19px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);">第一份礼物</span></strong></span><strong style="font-size: 19px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);">——爱与陪伴</span></strong></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">很多父母常常会受主流价值的影响，产生跟你类似的担心。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">于是，他们会关注学区房、研究升学加分、送孩子去辅导班，努力让孩子赢在起跑线。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">在这些主流价值的驱使下，孩子确实有可能走得比别人前，跑得比别人快。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">但同时也会给孩子带来过度的焦虑，让孩子越走越彷徨。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">因为他们一旦落后、失败、犯错，就会感觉有愧于父母的关注和付出。</span></strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">于是他们既不能停下来，也不知道该往哪里去，只能恐惧彷徨地跟随大流往前。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">相反，我却看到你身上与众不同的地方。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">正如你说的那样，你和孩子之间有很多重合的兴趣点。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">作为父母，能陪孩子看动画片、玩游戏，这本身已经很难得了。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">更重要的是，你自己不抗拒、不厌烦，甚至会热衷于此。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">这意味着你和孩子会产生大量的情感共鸣，创造许多温馨有爱的回忆。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">这些无条件的爱，将会是孩子巨大的精神依靠和支撑。</span></strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">至少当他落后或者失败时，他不会随便放弃，也不容易感到恐惧和迷茫。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;">当他的内心有足够的安全感时，他也会坚定地走在自己的路上，无惧地生活，无惧地做自己。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 19px;"><strong style="font-size: 18px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 19px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);">第二份礼物——笃定的模样</span></strong></span><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"> </span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">一个人的焦虑，往往是因为不能坚定自己的道路，在这个快速的时代里，被大流前仆后继地推着。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">相反，我在你身上却看到了这个时代少有的笃定。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">正如你所说，在你坚定自己内心以前，你也走过好多艰难的路，你担心孩子也会走上这些路。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">但我却认为，你走过的这些路，恰恰是孩子最好的榜样。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">你大方坦言自己“不主动关心”，能够看淡“世俗的功利”，也明确知道自己想追求的生活。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">这是专属于你的人生哲学，也是给孩子最好的礼物。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">这个最好的礼物就叫做：<strong>走在自己的路上。</strong></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">你坚定地走在自己追求的道路上时，内心会散发出丰盈的爱和幸福。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">当他看到你在追求自我人生所带来的愉悦时，他也能感受到“笃定人生”的好处。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">自然而然，他也会渐渐摸索出属于自己的道路，不被主流的观念所拘束。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">哪怕走得跌跌撞撞，他依然会乐此不疲地走在自己的路上，活出自己的人生。</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">因为他的妈妈就是最好的榜样。</span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></section><section style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">祝好。</span></section><p style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(98, 90, 90);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0pt 8px;font-size: 11pt;color: rgb(73, 73, 73);line-height: 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