言传不如身教，最毁孩子的几大习惯你知道吗？
<div style="max-width:677px !important;"><section class="mp_profile_iframe_wrp" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><mpprofile class="js_uneditable custom_select_card mp_profile_iframe" data-pluginname="mpprofile" data-id="MzA5NjE0Mjc5Mw==" data-headimg="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/kCH6bmDgH6X0y9CmebiaBleutZO4KYXwnH1Nq1KZtqPaics6CoLeIjK2iaWFGoEjw4NicMeCXg8gkkxZGibh5s0uU8g/0?wx_fmt=png" data-nickname="好教师帮" data-alias="hjiaosb" data-signature="与您一起畅谈教育圈的那些事！"></mpprofile></section><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">榜样的力量是无穷的，当孩子还不理解真正意义上的对和错的时候，他会观察并模仿父母的行为。我们是否遵守了人生和道德的准则？是否在毫不自知地给孩子以错误的引导？</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯1：不耐烦</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">疲惫的你回到家看见乱七八糟的衣服玩具，还有一旁在哭闹的孩子，你终于忍不住大吼起来：“怎么老是哭啊哭啊！别哭了，真是个烦人精！”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一个自尊并且尊重他人的孩子，一定是先得到了成人的尊重。孩子哭闹一定有他的原因，别带着你的情绪去抱怨，蹲下来，心平气和的给孩子一个拥抱，说不定问题就解决了。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果我们不给予孩子这种尊重，对孩子很粗暴，孩子也会想当然地认为别人就应该按照我说的去做，难以站在别人的角度考虑问题。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯2：不回避</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">结婚多年，你和爱人经常为一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事当着孩子的面吵翻天。事后又言归于好。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们的敌对、争吵，给孩子提供了一个攻击性行为的坏榜样。我们吵架时的神态、姿势、语气语调、用语都被孩子看在眼里，记在心里，日后孩子在游戏时，就对着洋娃娃嫩声嫩气地骂，狠狠地打娃娃，或者对小朋友说粗话、脏话。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯3：太“大方”</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你勤俭持家，舍不得给自己买新衣服，可是对孩子却很宠溺，要什么给他买什么，从不教他节省。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这种“爱”，会让孩子只懂得索取，不懂得付出。让孩子明白父母挣钱的不易，更重要的是教会孩子通过自己的努力去争取自己想要的，除了父母，没有人会无条件满足你的所有要求。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯4：不关心</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">每天把孩子接回来以后，习惯性地问孩子：“今天在幼儿园里开心吗？”一边问，一边忙着做饭，忙着收拾客厅。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们表面上好像在关心孩子，但我们的行为却在告诉孩子：我并不关心你的答案。于是，孩子从我们身上感受到了不被尊重，并学会敷衍别人。跟孩子沟通的时候，请走心。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯5：不认错</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你打破了一只玻璃杯，碎片散一地，孩子不小心踩到哇哇直哭，你却埋怨孩子走路不长眼睛。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你犯的错误，后果却让孩子去背。如果我们犯错了还拒不承认，那么孩子将来也会变成一个不能勇于承认并承担错误的人。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯6：爱抱怨</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友爽约，你对孩子和妻子抱怨：“以后别再理他了。”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">责备和埋怨不仅无济于事，还给孩子做了一个坏的表率：在面对失望的时候，我们没有积极地想办法解决问题，只是一味责备和埋怨别人。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯7：不娱乐</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子吵着要你给他讲故事，可你总是有很多理由拒绝他。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们的行为举止使孩子明白了一个“道理”：生活中只有工作没有娱乐，家庭中只有家务没有游戏。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯8：爱争执</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你和孩子排队在超市等着付款。一位男子插队站在了你的前面。你与他拉拽争吵起来。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们的做法对孩子进行了错误的社交示范，使孩子误以为，吵架、谩骂乃至打架都是解决冲突的好办法。你就会经常看到孩子为了争抢玩具而与小朋友吵架或者打架。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯9：撒谎、推托</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">老师提前通知你写一篇发言稿并在家长会上演讲。可是你一直没放在心上，后来你打电话给老师，告诉她你病了，让她再找其他家长。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">没有尝试就先退缩，我们平时告诉孩子要“说到做到，决不食言”的光辉形象就毁于一旦，孩子学会了把许诺抛之脑后，靠撒谎而使自己轻易推托。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯10：说配偶坏话</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻之路终于走到了尽头，你心中充满了对另一方的怨恨。于是你对孩子历数另一方的不是，并且告诉孩子：“爸爸/妈妈不要你了，你从此再也不要理他/她。”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样做，孩子学会了恨和报复，更大的问题是，她会对自己一生的幸福都没有信心。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯11：太容忍</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">某一天，你突然发现爱人有外遇了！你容忍，你告诉自己：“只要他/她还要这个家就行了，你还图什么呢，不就是要给孩子一个完整的家吗？”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们“善意”营造的一个貌似完整的家，并不能给孩子足够的温暖和爱。更重要的是会让孩子错误的以为，婚姻即使出现问题也只能容忍，没有办法修正。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯12：不敬老</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚后你从不孝敬老人，也从不带儿子去老人那里玩，背地里还经常当着孩子的面诅咒老人。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你对老人的态度，就是将来孩子对待你的态度。不为孩子树立孝敬的榜样，那么总有一天恶果会降临到你自己头上！</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯13：乱丢东西</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你总是习惯随手乱丢东西，妻子把你随手乱丢的一切东西都收拾好，从来不需要你操心。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不爱做家务的大人，肯定也有不爱做家务的孩子。你尊重家人的劳动和付出，孩子才会同样学会尊重家人。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯14：言行不一致</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你在亲戚面前总是鼓励孩子学习孔融让梨，而在公共汽车上却与老人、儿童抢位子，或者在“禁止入内”的牌子下让孩子爬到雕塑上摆pose。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们说一套，做一套，孩子长大后会很难坚守自己的道德操守。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯15：爱比较</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你总是对孩子说：“看看人家，他学习比你强多了！”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样做，不仅严重打击孩子自信心，还引起孩子反感，教会了孩子嫉妒。其实你可以引导孩子认真发现别人的优点，并且肯定自己孩子也有别人没有的优点，教孩子不断扬长避短，成为更好的人，这比教会孩子嫉妒别人优秀要好的多。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯16：无秩序</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">路上又堵车了。你将车从紧急停车道上开了过去。后面5岁的女儿问你：“为什么我们走这边？”你说：“这儿没警察，也没有摄像头，没关系的。”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当我们在没人监督时违规，孩子就学会：只要不被抓住，做什么都可以。当他长大后面对现代社会的种种挑战、种种诱惑时，很难有定力遵守规则，守护好自己。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯17：过分爱护</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你在厨房里忙得热火朝天，6岁的儿子钻进来帮你端起刚出锅的菜，你赶紧一把夺过：“去去去，不要多管闲事，烫着了怎么办？”把孩子赶出厨房。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们对孩子的“爱护”和“包办”，让孩子认为一切都是父母的事，永远学不会自己对自己负责。让孩子适当的参与家务劳动，其实并没有坏处。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">坏习惯18：不服气</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">吃饭时，你当着孩子的面愤愤不平地告诉爱人：“小李升职了，他有啥了不起的，不就会拍马屁，报告写的好吗……”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">提醒：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们不承认自己不如别人，孩子就学会以自我为中心，不思进取。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">◆ ◆ ◆</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们常说：言传不如身教。嘴上教训孩子千百遍，不如身体力行的演示给孩子看。你演示坏习惯，孩子就会受到坏的影响；演示好习惯，孩子就会受到好的影响，成就孩子一生，亦或是误导孩子一生。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0.63em;margin-bottom: 1.8em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;font-size: 16px;counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0;color: rgb(25, 25, 25);font-family: 'PingFang SC', Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;text-align: left;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-weight: 700;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">因此在孩子面前，请时刻注意你的言行，不要给孩子播下坏习惯的种子。</span></p><section 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