批评孩子的方式不同，为什么有的孩子会改变，有的孩子会走极端？
<div style="max-width:677px !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="97236" style="max-width: 100%;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.621714px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><section style="margin: 10px auto;max-width: 100%;text-align: left;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: flex;justify-content: flex-start;align-items: flex-end;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-bottom: -2px;max-width: 100%;width: 120px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;width: 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data-signature="一个关注青少年素质成长与教育的专业平台"></mpprofile></section><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不只大人需要被尊重，孩子同样需要被尊重，孩子的内心比我们想象的更加脆弱敏感。<br></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">现在的家长和老师可能都有这样的感觉，孩子很难管，都不敢批评，生怕孩子因为批评就做出极端的行为。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那么为什么现代的孩子会出现这样的极端举动呢？怎样才能不伤害到孩子的同时，给到孩子引导和教育呢？这个问题真的很值得深思。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最近一提批评孩子，好多家长就连连摆手：“现在的孩子可批评不得，否则不是‘杀人’就是‘跳楼’！”</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">近年来，这些“极端事件”被频频报道：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">于是，即使孩子犯了错误，不少家长也在心里“犯怵”：到底该不该批评孩子呢？<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">说深了孩子“走极端”、说浅了孩子不以为意，难道面对孩子的错误就要熟视无睹吗？</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可另一部分，也有家长提出异议：也有些孩子在听到父母批评后，虽然会不开心，但也会以一种更积极的态度来改正，甚至事后还会感谢父母曾经指出了自己的不足。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">同样是批评，怎么差别会这么大呢？</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.8em;padding-left: 0.8em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(68, 61, 61);display: inline-block;font-size: 21px;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">01</strong></p></section><section style="margin-top: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“批评”与“批评”也有大不同</strong></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看到这些极端事件，很多人的第一反应都是可能家长太溺爱孩子导致他受不了一点委屈，或者孩子内心太脆弱抗压力差等。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但其实，批评之所以能被演变成极端事件，很可能是因为我们从来没想过，孩子被批评后产生的消极情绪也是有区别的——不是家长不能批评，而是应该希望孩子在批评后进行自我反省，而不是仅仅感到羞愧。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也就是说，虽然都是“批评”，但批评的方式、语言、环境，也有大不同。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如孩子贪玩考试不理想，家长可能有两种反应：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">反应之一：</strong>这道题书本上都有，是不是又忘了？我们再复习一遍，然后再做几道类似的题巩固一下！</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">反应之二：</strong>这道题书上都有你肯定又没认真听！是不是又开小差来着？你怎么这么笨！</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">表面上看，这两句话都是批评，都是在指出孩子的错误。可是，在孩子看来，它们却有着完全不同的意义。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.8em;padding-left: 0.8em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(68, 61, 61);display: inline-block;font-size: 21px;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">02</strong></p></section><section style="margin-top: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个让人自省，一个导致羞愧</strong></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">首先我们要明白，什么是批评？</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">首先，批评是一种反馈，对孩子行为、表现的回应。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其次，正确的批评应该是有建设性的，就是必须要对孩子有帮助、有益处。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">由此可见，反应一才是一种正确的批评，因为是在帮助孩子一起分析、解决错误，而不是一味指责，就是在引导孩子把注意力放在行为上，放在如何进步、如何更优秀上，孩子也会在父母的影响下自省。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而反应二则更像是羞辱，孩子听了是什么感受呢？</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“笨”、“没用”，这样的攻击词汇除了让孩子自我否定外，没有任何一点儿建设性作用。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为它针对的不是错误本身，而是孩子这个个体，会在孩子心中掀起强烈羞耻的负面情绪。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，都是批评，两种截然不同的感受是怎么产生的？<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">简单来说：有建设性的批评，是一种反馈，是让孩子自省，而自省指向特定行为：“我犯了一个错误。”</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">羞辱性批评则让孩子感到羞耻，而羞耻指向核心自我：“我就是个错误。”</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.8em;padding-left: 0.8em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(68, 61, 61);display: inline-block;font-size: 21px;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">03</strong></p></section><section style="margin-top: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">批评不当，孩子容易走歪路</strong></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对一个孩子来说，批评后是善于自省还是感到羞愧，何止只是名称、概念上的差别，而很可能会关系到他们日后可能会有的人生风险。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">国外某心理学教授曾经带领团队针对羞耻和自省做过一项研究：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们从九所公立小学招募到380名5年级的儿童及父母，这些孩子年龄在10-12岁之间，研究人员把他们分为“容易羞耻”和“容易自省”两组。此后分别在孩子上7年级、8年级时和满18岁（18-21岁）后，进行了追访。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">结果发现：儿时羞耻感强烈的孩子，成年后更容易实施危险行为。儿时容易自省的孩子，成年后则更倾向于保护自己。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">原因是，容易产生羞耻感的孩子不太容易承认自己错了，而是倾向于合理化行为、歪曲事实；但是，容易自省的孩子则会主动承认错误，还尽力弥补。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">羞耻感→死不认账→不受欢迎，人际关系差→遇事愤怒、敌意强，自我控制能力降低→容易出现攻击行为</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">自省→主动承担责任→大受欢迎，朋友多且长久→遇事平和，自我控制能力强→更受欢迎</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这就像滚雪球一样，满满的羞耻感开始让一个孩子沦落。而自省，就像盾牌一样保护孩子始终面向阳光</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而这一切，就源自父母的一句批评。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">千里之堤毁于蚁穴，任何一个突发事件其实都是积累的结果。那些因为父母批评一句就闹着跳楼、自杀甚至弑父弑母的孩子，可能内心早已被羞耻感给吞噬了。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.8em;padding-left: 0.8em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(68, 61, 61);display: inline-block;font-size: 21px;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">04</strong></p></section><section style="margin-top: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">四个时间段不要批评孩子</strong></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">批评孩子时，除了要注意说辞，有的时候不同时间段批评孩子，也会起到不同的效果。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在一天的时间里，这四个时间段最好不要批评孩子，如果孩子犯了错也要尤其注意批评的方式方法。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">晨起时不批评孩子</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都说一日之计在于晨，晨起就批评孩子，会对孩子一天的心情造成影响，让他一天的学习都处于低迷状态。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最恰当的处理方法是：当场言语点出孩子做错了，让孩子尽快收拾完，放学后再针对这个问题，好好地沟通一下。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">吃饭时别批评孩子</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">著名主持人董卿曾回忆自己童年因父亲总是喜欢在饭桌上批评她，让她经常一边吃饭一边哭，以至她小时候最害怕的，就是吃饭。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在饭桌上批评孩子不仅会对孩子心理造成影响，而且一定程度上，会影响孩子的食欲，让他食欲不振，对孩子的身体健康造成影响。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">公众场合不批评孩子</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子是个独立的个体，也需要维护自身的面子，家长如果无所顾忌地在公众场合批评孩子，只会让他们自尊受挫。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">教育家苏霍姆林斯基说过：“儿童的尊严是人类心灵里最敏感的角落，保护儿童的自尊心就是保护儿童的潜在力量。”</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不在睡觉前批评孩子</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果让孩子带着负面情绪入睡，孩子会容易睡不安稳，甚至做噩梦，非常影响睡眠质量，不利于身体发育。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，在批评孩子这块，家长们也要将“入睡前”剔除掉，给孩子一个稳定平和的入睡环境。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.8em;padding-left: 0.8em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(68, 61, 61);display: inline-block;font-size: 21px;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">05</strong></p></section><section style="margin-top: 5px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(236, 109, 115);font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">8个批评孩子的科学方法</strong></p></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好的教育，奖惩分明；好的父母，管教同步。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“玉不雕不成器，树不修不成材”。想要孩子成长得优秀，父母的管教必不可少，下面8个科学的批评方法学习起来：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">允许孩子解释</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">无论孩子做的对错与否，都要允许孩子自己解释。家长则要保持中立，客观评价孩子是否做错、为什么做错。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">学会换位思考</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长要换位思考，理解孩子这么做的目的，找准批评的切入点。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">并且让孩子换位思考：“假设你是那个人，你会有什么感受，这么做到底对不对。”</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">首先自我批评</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">批评孩子前，家长先进行自我批评，放低身段，迅速拉近跟孩子的关系。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长的自我批评，也能让孩子学会自我反思。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只对事不对人</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子做错了或者没做好，家长第一反应不是责骂，而是指导。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就事论事，让孩子明白为什么不能这么做，这么做会有什么后果。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">教会孩子改错</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不能盲目地批评，要通过科学的方法让孩子意识到错误，并且找到改错的方法。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">选择恰当的时机</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不能在孩子起床时、睡觉前、吃饭时、生病时批评他，这会直接影响他的身心健康。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">采用和善的态度</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">批评孩子≠骂孩子，父母更不能向孩子宣泄情绪，应该简明扼要地指出错误，然后再教育。也不要动不动就翻旧账，让孩子抵触认错，不服管教。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">尊重孩子的自尊</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">别当着外人面批评孩子，更不要在孩子的同学、老师面前对他又打又骂。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不只大人需要被尊重，孩子同样需要被尊重，孩子的内心比我们想象的更加脆弱敏感。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">著名教育学家苏霍姆林斯基说过：“如果用几句话来表达家庭教育学的全部精华，那就是使我们的孩子成为坚定的人，能够严格要求自己。”</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这便是我们教育的方向。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong 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