gongyi020 发表于 2021-4-16 18:33:10

不懂感恩的孩子,瞬间就可以毁掉一个家庭!

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                  <p style="white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);letter-spacing: 0.54px;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></p><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;text-align: right;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;text-indent: 0em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 14px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作者丨韩九叔</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;text-align: right;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;text-indent: 0em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 14px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">来源|国学文刊(ID:GuoXuewenkan)</span></section><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89224" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 10px auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -16px;padding: 30px;font-size: 14px;background-color: rgb(242, 244, 245);border-radius: 10px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 15px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);letter-spacing: 0.5px;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母最大的幸福,不是拥有多大的财产,而是拥有子女的关爱。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 15px;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-size-adjust: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);letter-spacing: 0.5px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">培养出一个感恩的孩子,是为人父母最大的成功。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(176, 176, 177);text-align: right;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">——萨姐</span></section></section></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89224" style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="100%" style="margin-bottom: -30px;width: 556px;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;display: flex;justify-content: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section></section><p style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个家走得远不远,就看孩子长大后,是否懂得“反哺”。</span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">太多父母,本可以过得富足,却为了孩子耗尽一生的积蓄,让孩子踏在自己肩膀上。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">之后,孩子“翅膀”硬了,却把父母一脚踢开。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不懂感恩的孩子,瞬间就可以毁掉一个家庭几十年的成果,“一朝回到解放前”。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">01</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不懂感恩的孩子</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">是一个家的“毒瘤”</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">俗话说,“血浓于水。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">世上最深的牵绊,莫过于父母与孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">对父母来说,孩子是他们生命的延续;对孩子来说,父母是自己的源头。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可不懂感恩的孩子,却可以无限“稀释”与父母的血缘关系,甚至反目成仇。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">曾在网上看过一个问题:&nbsp;</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“出身在四线城市,父母不能给你事业带来任何帮助,你还心存感恩吗?”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这种理直气壮的口气,一听就是“白眼狼”所问:</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果父母不能助你“平步青云”,难道就要忘了本?</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果父母不再有能力给你带来帮助,难道就要“恩断义绝”?</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">问题底下有一个回答,一针见血:</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“把你从蝌蚪这么小喂到现在猪一般大,你还想咋滴?”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">多少原本应该和谐美满的家庭,因为孩子肆无忌惮的索求,变得摇摇欲坠。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们就像一颗毒瘤,理所当然地图谋着如何榨干父母。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也不理会父母的小心翼翼,只管自己舒服,仿佛父母这辈子欠他们太多。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">0</span></strong><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2</span></strong></p><section style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只知付出的父母<br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">养不出懂得感恩的孩子</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有人说,“做父母的,一辈子不就是为了给孩子做贡献吗?”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这是为人父母最大的误区,以为一味地掏空自己,超负荷地“富养”孩子,就是自己最大的骄傲。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也不管孩子能否理解自己的辛劳,能否在内心种下感恩的种子。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">结果,大半辈子的心血,换不来一句感激的话。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">电视剧《安家》里有一个故事:</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">严叔夫妇卖了几十年包子,不舍得吃,不舍得穿,终于攒够钱,给儿子全款买了房。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">老夫妻俩以为苦尽甘来,拉着铺盖打算搬去新家时,才发现媳妇婆家早已住了进去。&nbsp;</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最让他们心寒的是,儿子没有一点愧疚,也不管父母无家可归,只是冷漠地说,“你们先回去吧。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">狗养久了尚且知道摇尾示好,不懂感恩的孩子连狗都不如。<br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但这一切,也是父母一手造成,他们或许足够“无私”,但孩子领受得越多,表现得越不耐烦,这是为人父母最大的悲哀。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">没有父母不期待孩子孝顺,不期待孩子“回报”自己,只知道给予的父母,时时委屈自己,却从未享受过孩子的“报答”。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">03</span></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子懂感恩<br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 5px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">是一个家兴旺的迹象</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">梁晓声说,“爱是双向的,只有父母对孩子的爱,没有孩子对父母的爱,这种爱是不完整的。”<br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">正是这种不完整的爱,让很多家庭渐渐衰败:</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母倾其所有地帮助孩子立足社会,孩子则把父母当成了“祸害”之源,恨不得父母不要来打扰自己。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大多数父母,显然并不知道,父母爱孩子是近乎本能,而孩子爱父母,则需要学习。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只教孩子成才,不教孩子成人,这样的孩子再优秀,也不会懂得如何爱人,如何妥善安排父母。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《诗经》中说:“父兮生我,母兮鞠我,抚我畜我,长我育我,顾我复我,出入腹我。欲报之德,昊天罔极。”</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母生养、抚慰、养育、拉拔、庇护孩子,恩德大如天。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">让孩子知道自己拥有的一切,来之不易,是父母牺牲无数心血所得,不是为了算账、索取回报。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">相反,是使孩子学会珍惜、知恩。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子懂得感恩,父母的所有付出,都不会白费,而是转变成激励,最终回馈到家庭里,进而走向兴旺。</span></strong></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><p style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">04</span></strong></p><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母倾注一生的心血在孩子身上,孩子成家立业后,父母也老了。</span><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子无情,就算再优秀,落在父母眼里也满是心酸、落寞。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不懂感恩的孩子,足以毁掉一整个家庭。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">养出懂得感恩的孩子,父母这一生的辛劳,才不算白费。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一辈子的教育,才算走对了路。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 14px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;text-align: center;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-size-adjust: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作者:韩九叔,来源:国学文刊(ID:GuoXuewenkan),每天早上7点,邂逅深度好文,品读国学经典,学习传统知识,国学文刊与你一起成长!</span></span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section>
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