gongyi020 发表于 2021-4-15 00:10:45

99%的孩子是需要家长教育的!

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Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">什么事动不动就“我回家问问孩子喜欢不,上不上、学不学都‘尊重’孩子的意见”!那孩子要是不喜欢,是不是什么都不用学了?那才是真正的害了孩子。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">明明快七岁了,特别喜欢毛笔,经常自己拿着毛笔蘸着墨乱写乱画,虽然自己写的字歪歪扭扭的,但也没有打压他的热情。看到他这么痴迷,我就和他的同学妈妈一起给他们报了个书法兴趣班。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">一开始,他特别喜欢上课,可是上了一个月后,他开始变得不耐烦,不想去上课了,甚至不想写字。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: 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Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><inherit><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">“不去,我就不去!”他继续闹,然后感叹了一句:“大人真幸福,想做什么就做什么,小孩真不幸福,什么都要听大人的!”</span></inherit></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><inherit><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">我告诉他:“很多事情你们小孩还不懂,不能做决定,就得听大人的!”</span></inherit></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">也许有人不赞同我的做法,孩子不想学就别学了,干嘛非得强迫他,现在不是都在讲要“尊重孩子”吗?要和孩子做朋友吗?但我渐渐发现,</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">在孩子小的时候,父母必须替孩子做出正确的决定,有时甚至要逼她们做不愿意做的事,尤其是学习。</span></strong></span></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">教育这件事,从来就没有顺其自然;</span></strong><strong><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">也没有一种能力,仅仅是天赋使然。</span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子所有的成就,都是父母细心观察、精心栽培、用心引导的结果。&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 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Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">对这些表现,董卿却说自己得益于爸爸从小的教育:不许她多照镜子、不能穿新衣服,每天抄诵成语古诗,每天晨跑一千米,15岁开始打杂工,在家承担家务。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">爸爸的严厉和无情,曾让董卿觉得自己不是亲生的。&nbsp;</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">对一个孩子来说,很多事情都是董卿不喜欢也不愿意去做的,但在父亲的逼迫下,这些她都坚持了下来。&nbsp;</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: 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8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">不知道从什么时候开始,</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong>很多的父母越来越“尊重”孩子,常常喊着给孩子“爱和自由”的口号,要求与孩子平等对话,然而很多时候却是矫枉过正、过犹不及,很多父母口里的“尊重”,变成了“遵从”。</strong></span></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">于是,当孩子对舞蹈、书法、美术等感兴趣的时候,父母二话不说先报了班,然而孩子学了一段时间不耐烦了,想要放弃时,父母又遵从孩子的决定,说是听孩子的,给他自由。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">殊不知这是家长在“偷懒”,打着“爱孩子”的幌子。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">看上去是对孩子的尊重,实际上却是对孩子的放任,这是父母极度不负责任的表现。</span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">要知道,任何学习过程必然要经历一段枯燥乏味的阶段,这时候家长不“逼”孩子,让孩子“不想学就不学”,那么孩子的学习永远只能停留在浅尝辄止的阶段,东学一下西学一下,永远体会不到深层次学习的乐趣,形成恶性循环。&nbsp;</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">久而久之,孩子只能什么都学不会,什么都做不成。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">蔡康永先生说过一段话,说得非常好,他说:</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(154, 154, 154);font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">“5岁觉得游泳难,放弃游泳,18岁遇到一个你喜欢的人约你去游泳,你只好说‘我不会耶’;18岁觉得英文难,放弃英文,28岁出现一个很棒但要会英文的工作,你只好说‘我不会耶’。”</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">如果不想让孩子长大后后悔,父母就要承担起责任,走在前面,成为孩子的引路人。</span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">告诉孩子,如果在人生的早期不好好学习,那么长大之后必然会后悔。在孩子想要放弃某项学习的时候,对他说一声:“孩子,再坚持一下,我陪着你。”</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">正如龙应台写给儿子的那段话说的:<br></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">“孩子,我要求你读书用功,不是因为我要你跟别人比成绩,而是因为,我希望你将来会拥有选择的权利,选择有意义、有时间的工作,而不是被迫谋生。</span></strong><strong><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">”</span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">学习从来就不是一件轻松的事,它不仅需要孩子勤奋刻苦,也需要父母的耐心陪伴。</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong>在孩子想要放弃时,发挥父母的“威严”管教一下,对孩子要求严一点,这才是真正的爱孩子。</strong></span></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">有时候,父母就是要“逼”孩子一把。如果父母逼孩子学他不想学的,是父母做得不妥;如果父母逼孩子做他已经选择的,那就是父母的责任了,教育孩子千万不要半途而废。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;">无论什么事坚持才会有效果,有效果才会有成就感,有成就感才会坚持,久而久之,才能养成良好的习惯,要让孩子明白:今天不吃苦将来会吃苦;今天不努力会努力一辈子。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;">其实,真正的教育,就是拼爹拼妈。</span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 16px;">一个优秀的孩子,绝不可能横空出世,其背后必然有着父母付出的无数时间和心血。</span>
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